The Complete Guide to Winning at Life When Things Go Wrong

“This guide works when anything shitty happens. Someone criticizes you online? Read this. Someone wants a refund on something that took you five years to build, and they’re mean about it? Read this. You got fired from a job or by a client? Read this.”

Bad things are going to happen and when they do the stories you tell yourself about what’s happening and why become super important.

To help you deal with those moments, Paul Jarvis has compiled a guide to winning at life when things go wrong that includes “19 super difficult steps” including to recognize judgment and respect are different things, you only need the people who respect and value you, and you can be honest without being a jerk.

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