Stop Trying to Change Yourself

“We don’t know what change is because we don’t know what the hell we are. If I wake up tomorrow and do the exact opposite of everything I do today, am I a changed person? Or am I simply the same person who decided to try something different?”

Through this newsletter I share a lot of tips about how to become better at things, but rarely suggest you change who you are. This post makes me feel good about that.

Mark Manson recommends you stop trying to change yourself and says the idea of changing ourselves is problematic because it ties to our identity.

Instead, he suggests approaching life as a series of actions and decisions.

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