“The thing that I had spent my whole life thinking was the kindest option for others was in fact putting all the work on them.”
I used to say “Whatever” all the time, but I’ve learned to say it a lot less and found I completely agree with the sentiment of this Courtney Seiter post.
She spells out how she’s learned to make decisions by no longer being a “Whatever Person” and points out doing so has helped her know herself better, save time, and become a better leader.