“You are the common denominator of all the drama in your life. You haven’t had 5 crappy jobs or 3 crappy relationships in a row. They did not happen to you. You happened to them. You are crappy at your job or you are crappy at your relationships.”
How to Disguise Yourself like a Cia Agent
“You want to be the person that gets on the elevator, and then gets off, and nobody really remembers that you were even there.”
10 Ideas For The Interested This Week
“The reward for work well done is the opportunity to do more.” — Jonas Salk
My 20 Most Popular Posts Of 2018
Thank you.
For the past 12 months you’ve read, liked, commented, and shared the 52 posts and 50 issues of my For The Interested newsletter I’ve published and I don’t take that for granted.
I appreciate your attention, feedback, and generosity more than you know.
Following are the 20 posts which resonated most with readers this year in case you missed any of them.
The Benefits of Quitting Things
“Somehow, while all our design processes celebrate iteration and celebrate throwing things away, our culture downplays iteration and quitting. We don’t celebrate stopping things, changing our path, changing the destination. Just the opposite — we celebrate finishing things.”
52 Things Tom Whitwell Learned in 2018
“54 percent of Chinese born after 1995 chose ‘influencer’ as their most desired occupation.”
How to Build an Inbox Zero Email Habit
“Your habit has probably been to arrive in the office in the morning and check your email. This is akin to sending a message to the world asking for everyone else to set your priorities for the next few hours.”
Improve Your Life by Subtracting Instead of Adding
“The least successful people I know run in conflicting directions, drawn to distractions, say yes to almost everything, and are chained to emotional obstacles. The most successful people I know have a narrow focus, protect against time-wasters, say no to almost everything, and have let go of old limiting beliefs.”
There’s No Such Thing as the Best
“We have this sense that there is an objective best, and in virtually no area of life is that true. It’s not even that, ‘Well, there’s the best for me, and then there’s the best for you.’ It isn’t even clear that there is a best for me. There’s a whole set of things that are probably more or less equivalent.”
How to Tell Stories on Social Media That Capture People’s Attention
“The when matters. It’s got to be presented as something that is time sensitive, that has a massive level of immediacy to it, that’s what is going to get you that response and that uptick in sharing and watching and liking and reading, because people want to be a part of a developing narrative.”